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Beyond the Guidelines Podcast: Why Driven Entrepreneurs Struggle to Celebrate Wins
At Creative 1st Mortgage, we know the real estate and mortgage business isn’t just about numbers, deals, or closings. It’s about people — their stories, their struggles, and their growth. That’s the inspiration behind the Beyond the Guidelines Podcast, where we step away from polished sales talk and uncover the real human side of business.
In this episode, Ryan and Jason sit down to discuss a challenge that almost every entrepreneur, real estate agent, and mortgage professional faces: the struggle to celebrate wins. Whether it’s hitting a sales goal, closing a big deal, or reaching a personal milestone, many driven people immediately move on to the next challenge without stopping to reflect. This “always chasing” mentality can be both a strength and a weakness.
The Driven Person’s Paradox
High achievers are wired to constantly push forward. Success is often seen not as a destination, but as a checkpoint. The next goal looms larger, and yesterday’s victory quickly fades into the background.
This mindset — known as the Driven Person’s Paradox — is common in real estate and mortgage professionals, where performance is measured daily, monthly, and quarterly. As Jason explains, business development requires him to always look ahead. Even after achieving major milestones, the celebration rarely lasts longer than a moment before it’s back to setting the next target.
While this drive can fuel growth, it also creates challenges:
Burnout from never slowing down
Feelings of “never good enough”
Missed opportunities to acknowledge progress
Strain on personal relationships and family connections
Personal Stories of Growth and Struggle
Both Ryan and Jason share personal stories that bring this topic to life.
Jason recalls growing up without clear direction, drifting after high school, and eventually finding his footing in the finance industry. Along the way, he overcame personal struggles with alcohol and discovered that real growth comes not just from hitting professional milestones, but also from overcoming personal battles.
Ryan relates by opening up about his own sobriety journey and how even significant milestones — like being sober for over four years — are easy to overlook in the rush to move forward. He compares this to running a business where one record-breaking month is quickly overshadowed by the reset of a new month.
These stories highlight an important truth: success is not just about the deals you close, but the person you become along the way.
Why It’s Hard to Celebrate Wins
So why do ambitious professionals find it so difficult to stop and celebrate?
Goal-Oriented Pressure – In competitive industries like real estate and mortgage lending, the pressure to perform never ends. Once one goal is met, a new one immediately takes its place.
Fear of Falling Behind – Many entrepreneurs tie their self-worth to productivity. If they pause too long, they fear losing momentum or being outpaced.
Upbringing & Conditioning – As Jason shares, early experiences often shape mindset. For some, feelings of “not being good enough” become ingrained, making it difficult to feel satisfied with progress.
Burnout & Exhaustion – The constant hustle leaves little time for reflection. Even when wins happen, entrepreneurs are often too tired to recognize them.
Strategies to Break the Cycle
The good news is, celebrating wins is a skill — one that can be developed with intention. In this episode, Ryan and Jason share practical strategies that have helped them and can help other entrepreneurs, agents, and business owners:
1. Practice Daily Gratitude
Jason starts his mornings with an “attitude of gratitude.” By reflecting on where he came from, what he has, and where he’s going, he sets the tone for the day. This practice keeps him grounded and reminds him that progress is worth celebrating.
2. Embrace Silence
Ryan emphasizes the power of silence. Taking just a few minutes each day to sit quietly, reflect, and breathe can calm the racing mind. Even three minutes of stillness can reset your perspective and allow you to recognize the wins hiding in plain sight.
3. Add Movement Before Reflection
If sitting still feels impossible, Ryan suggests moving your body first. A quick round of push-ups or jumping jacks can help release restlessness, making it easier to settle into silence afterward.
4. Keep Score of Daily Progress
One simple trick is writing down the day’s accomplishments — no matter how small. Crossing tasks off a list and reviewing progress reinforces the fact that each step forward matters.
5. Celebrate with Family & Team
Wins don’t just belong to the individual. Sharing them with family, friends, and coworkers helps spread positivity and strengthens relationships. As Ryan notes, when leaders fail to celebrate, their teams also miss the chance to feel proud of their efforts.
The Challenge for You
At the end of the episode, Ryan and Jason offer a challenge to listeners and readers alike:
👉 After your next win — whether it’s closing a deal, finishing a project, or hitting a personal goal — stop for at least three minutes.
👉 Celebrate it. Share it with someone. Reflect on how it feels.
👉 Then repeat the process again and again.
Building this habit helps break the cycle of constant chasing and allows entrepreneurs to enjoy the journey.
Why This Matters in Real Estate & Mortgages
In industries as fast-paced and competitive as real estate and mortgage lending, celebrating wins isn’t just “feel good” advice — it’s a survival strategy.
For clients, it means working with professionals who are energized and not burned out.
For teams, it fosters culture, loyalty, and motivation.
For entrepreneurs, it prevents long-term fatigue and sustains passion for the business.
As Jason reminds us: “You are good enough if you’re putting in the effort.” Growth doesn’t happen in a straight line. Like the stock market or a new business, there are ups and downs — but every step forward counts.
Final Thoughts
The Beyond the Guidelines Podcast isn’t about quick sales tips or cookie-cutter advice. It’s about exploring the deeper mindset shifts that help real estate agents, mortgage professionals, and entrepreneurs thrive not just in business, but in life.
This episode reinforces a lesson many of us need to hear: it’s not weakness to stop and celebrate — it’s a skill. Success is found in the journey, not just the destination.
So this week, take the challenge. Celebrate your wins — big or small. Because in real estate, mortgages, and entrepreneurship, progress is worth recognizing.
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